Before I start telling you Tajahi’s Secrets, I just want to say thank you to all the ladies who are keeping the Tajahi Facebook page so HOT. We have had some really good short discussions this week and I have really enjoyed the sharing we have done…. THANKS!!!!
Ok with that said… this week I want to talk to you about sex positions that are conducive to female orgasm.
|Tajahi's Pre Orgasmic Steps|
Having an orgasm has not always been an easy task for me to accomplish; often I would have sex and never even come close to reaching a climax. I realized that I had to be totally comfortable with myself, my man and have my mind right to climax during sex. It took a lot of trial and error but once we got there, man was it great. I decided to share some of the positions that have consistently allowed me to reach orgasm… remember that every woman is different and if you aren’t relaxed, comfortable and aroused, it won’t matter what position you do it in, your chances of reaching an orgasm will be slim. So, before you start be sure to get your mind right with these Pre Orgasmic Readiness Steps:
- Clear your mind of all negative sexual thought
- Be comfortable with and love your body (poor body perception is a huge negative factor inhibiting orgasm)
- Know that you will have an orgasm (I am a strong believer in positive thought and speaking something into reality)
- Make sure you are totally aroused (if you aren’t aroused it will take you much longer to reach orgasm, if you do at all)
|Rear Entry or Doggie Style Positions|
Ok now that we have our minds right, we are totally aroused and ready to begin, here are some positions that put our men in the right spot to help us achieve our orgasm.
Rear Entry or Doggie Style
|Standing Rear Entry|
This is position is great due to the angle of your man, he can easily stimulate your g-spot and it leaves your hands free to stimulate your c-spot or clitoris… Double stimulation allows for very intense orgasms. Try variations of this position to see which ones work best for you:
- Up on all fours
- Put your upper body down on the bed leaving your bottom in the air
- Lift your upper body putting your hands on the headboard or wall
- Your man standing behind you on the floor, while you kneel off the edge of the bed
- Lay face down on the bed, tilt your hips so your bottom is up in the air and use a pillow under your hips if you are easily fatigued. You can try this position with your mans legs either inside or outside of your legs
- Standing rear entry
|Reverse Cowboy or Cowgirl|
This is a position that puts us in control. We can lean back or forward allowing us to determine the right angle. We can go as fast or as slow as we want. If you want him to stimulate your C-spot (clit) he can but I like to do it myself. Only I know the intensity and rhythm I need at the right moment…. so although he may want to help… I suggest you do it yourself.
You can also practice your Kegel exercises to increase your pleasure. He can also assist you with this position by helping you lift your body on the up and down action by placing his hands on your bottom and lifting.
Side note: I prefer the normal, woman on top - riding position, with me facing my man but I showcased the reverse cowboy due to all the rave reviews of this position and how effective it is for ease of orgasm.
The Tantric Raised Feet Position
|Variation of the Raised Feet Position|
This is a variation of the missionary position. In this position your hips are lifted resting on your mans thighs or against his pelvis, as he kneels in front of you. This is my favorite because I get the best G-spot stimulation in this angle, I can stimulate my C-spot, and best of all… I can totally focus on receiving pleasure and enjoying what I am feeling. I can control the angle by tilting my hips up or down to ensure my g-spot is stimulated. All I can say is this position is the bomb. I am multi orgasmic so this position allows me reserve my energy and cum till I can’t take it anymore. J
|Variation of the Raised Feet Position|
You can do variations of this position as you can see in the two images above.
- Your legs resting on your mans shoulders
- Your legs resting around his hips
- Your legs over your head with your knees on your shoulders
- Both legs either on his left or right shoulder
- Your legs in the air and your ankles crossed
The key to this position is for your man to be kneeling on his knees.
I love to cum…. If I have sex and I don’t reach orgasm I am not a happy camper and my man knows that. Fortunately, he is a pleaser and with conversation we are able to explore new positions, experience new sensations, and I must say… sex is amazingly satisfying for both of us… So with that said… the positions above are the ones that I enjoy the most and bring me to orgasm the easiest. I suggest you experiment and find the positions that work for you and your partner.
I also featured positions that leave your hands free to stimulate your clit to double the pleasure and I am totally all about the double pleasure. J Check out the earlier blog to understand the benefits of combining G-spot and Clitoral stimulation to assist you in reaching mind-blowing orgasms.
: Manual Clitoral stimulation in almost any position will allow you to reach orgasm, so get comfortable with yourself, leave preconceived notions of pleasuring yourself at the door and claim your orgasm. Leaving your pleasure up to your man does little to help us, especially if we are having climatic issues.
I would love to hear from you ladies… share the positions that make you cum.
Have Great Sex until I share more of Tajahi’s Secrets next week…. smooches.